Heading for Slow-Burn Sales Failure? 4 Early Signs

Does a sales collapse ever really come “out of the blue”?

I reckon people subconsciously think it does, one bad month, one tough quarter, one conversation with the boss that knocks us sideways. But that’s never how it works.

Sales failure is almost always a slow burn.

It creeps in quietly like a Father Christmas leaving you some coal and no presents, one minute the milk is still there, then you wake up and it’s gone.

Whether you are a sales person, a sales manager, CFO or a founder, the following will affect everyone with a revenue target at some point.

Usually you don’t notice it happening.
And by the time you do, you’re already on the back foot, wondering how you drifted so far away from the confident revenue channel that brought delight into your life.

Over the years — and I am getting on, 58 now — I have seen that people aren’t broken, they are not lazy, not lacking talent… often they are just slowly losing their edge without realising it.

1. You’ve quietly stopped believing you can make your numbers

You don’t say it out loud.
You don’t even admit it to yourself.

But somewhere deep down, that spark, the “I’m all over it”, has abandoned you.

You tell yourself you just need a good month and all will be well.
My point is the erosion of belief is slow and silent. For me, when it happened — on reflection — it was years. The first time was 12 years. Madness eh?

And once that goes, everything else follows:

• You second-guess your approach
• You hesitate
• You avoid the difficult conversations
• You become introverted
• You protect yourself instead of taking risks and growing
• The spark/magic that creates the miracle dims

The market didn’t change.
Your ability didn’t disappear.
Your belief just went for a walk and did not come back.

2. Lead generation terrifies you

Nobody admits this.
But it’s true.

Prospecting scares people.
Not the mechanics, it’s the fear of trusting the channel.

Of being ignored, rejected, judged, or wasting your time — even though you have plenty.

So you hide behind “time”: Even though you have tons of it. I mean, 3 meetings a week with prospects, if you are lucky, what are you doing with the rest? That’s a morning’s work.
Admin and lists, organising your inbox, rewriting your pitch, checking LinkedIn, cleaning your desktop, anything except actually reaching out.

This is the sales version of sleeping in separate rooms in a marriage.

It looks practical.
It sounds healthy for both.
But we all know what it really means.
It’s really avoidance.

If your pipeline is thinning, the problem isn’t the market.
It’s you and how you are engaging with the market.

Your personal brand is key.

Sales is now B2P2P2B. Meaning business to person to person to business. Some might say it’s always been that way — yes, before inbound/Google it was — but over the last 25 years it’s been B2marketing2B.

Think about it, you know what I am talking about.

Sales do not prospect anymore. The worst profiles on LinkedIn are sales people.
What’s that all about?

3. In front of clients, you know you’re not as good as you should be

This one hurts, because every salesperson recognises it.

You show up, and you know you are/were good but you’re not fully there.
You cannot put your finger on it and you believe no one else can understand. I mean, who knows you better than yourself?

You play safe. That’s the out.

• You don’t challenge.
• You don’t take control of the conversation.
• You try harder to get your message over.
• You know if you make a mistake it’s a disaster.

And when you walk out of a meeting, you know it:
You know it could have gone better than it did.

That’s the slow burn.
It steals your mojo before you even notice.

4. Your relationship with your sales manager/boss is “great” — but you know this can only last so long

You get on great — lunches, a beer etc. No real issues.
But beneath the surface, there’s tension neither of you mentions.

They’re under pressure.
You know it.
They know you know it.
Time is ticking.

So everyone keeps things polite, surface level — “Let’s review your pipeline”, for the umpteenth time.

That emotional distance, that’s when I see it changing. It’s subtle and you sense it, the disappointment in you sits like a bike in your stomach.

When communication tones change and the language they use means you are not an insider anymore.

So how? (Singlish)

Here’s the truth:

Sales doesn’t collapse suddenly.
It collapses slowly, quietly, internally, long before the numbers show it.

But the flip side is powerful:

• Belief can be rebuilt.
• Pipeline confidence can return.
• Client-facing strength can come back fast once you stop playing small.
• And manager relationships improve the moment honesty enters the room.

This isn’t about being “better at sales”.
It’s about reconnecting with the version of you that knows how to succeed.

If you see yourself in any of this, don’t beat yourself up. I genuinely have been there many times. The first main one was when I moved out to Singapore. 12 years in the dessert — or is it desert, I am losing the plot, it’s Friday.

Just recognise the signs, and start asking the right questions.

The slow burn only becomes failure if you ignore it.

Otherwise?

It becomes your comeback story. Which I can assure you when it happens is joyous.

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